Sissy maids are, quite simply, submissive men who like to dress as women and serve others, particularly a Mistress or, for the very fortunate, a wife or girlfriend. Very often, they dress in typical French maid attire, complete with petticoat, stockings, garter, heels, and of course, a pair of ruffled sissy panties. Sissy maids often begin as sissies who aspire to the level of eroticism and servitude associated with wearing the French maid outfit. These sissies may seek either a real-time or an on-line Mistress who specializes is sissymaid training.
What would a typical sissy maid training session entail? Of course, the type of training depends on the actual sissy and her Mistress. However, a typical training session should include, first and foremost, the donning of a French maid outfit, appropriate for the day and the tasks at hand.
The sissy must complete a litany of tasks, at the discretion of the Mistress, all while dressed in the proverbial maid outfit. These tasks may include, washing dishes, dusting, sweeping and mopping, preparing meals and hors d’oeuvres for the Mistress and any guests she may be entertaining that weekend.
For the very fortunate sissy, the list may also include shining, polishing and caring for the Mistress’ shoe and boot collection, and hand-washing her vast assortment of lingerie.
When a sissy becomes insolent or unruly, the Mistress may have to step in and take action, or even punish her. These reprimands may be physical punishments, such as spankings or caning. However, if the Mistress feels that the sissy has misbehaved in order to receive a sought-after punishment from the Mistress, she may choose to discipline her in other ways.
Perhaps the most effective punishment for the sissy in this case, would be a very difficult cleaning task in an isolated environment, for instance, cleaning the garage. This serves two purposes. First, the sissy is removed from the Mistress’ presence for hours at a time, which can be excruciatingly painful for her. Second, she is being required to do something typically assigned to men, which acts a poignant reminder that she is, after all, male, even though she may feel very girly dressed in her maid outfit.
Depending on the needs of the Mistress and the time-constraints of the sissy maid, a typical day would more than likely occur on a weekend. An ideal arrangement would be for the sissy to arrive and become acquainted with the Mistress and her duties on Friday evening. The metamorphosis of the man into maid may take the better part of her first few hours “on the job.”
She may need to have her body hair removed and/or not know anything at all about dressing and applying cosmetics. As a matter of fact, she may not even have her own sissymaid outfit, as many sissies keep their wives and family lives completely separate from their sissy selves. In that event, she would need to be fitted with the most appropriate maid outfit, provided by the Mistress.
After a good night’s rest, the newly transformed sissy maid would awake early enough to put on her sissy maid outfit and get completely made up so that she is visually pleasing to the Mistress. This may require the sissy to be up very early in the morning. Once the sissy maid is dressed and ready to serve, she enters the kitchen and begins preparing breakfast for her Mistress. All meals must be presented in a way that is aesthetically pleasing, served on fine china, with cloth napkins, stemware and properly garnished with fresh fruit or flowers.
Once breakfast is served, it’s time to draw the bath for Mistress. Some Mistresses prefer bubbles, some prefer rose petals, it would be up to the sissy maid to determine exactly what the Mistress desired for her morning bath. While the Mistress was bathing, the sissy maid would choose her ensemble for the day.
Depending on the Mistress’ engagements, the outfit should be appropriate, in order for the Mistress to present herself in the best light. This may require pressing or ironing the outfit for the Mistress. Some Mistresses wish to have their sissy maids assist with bathing, perhaps sloughing her back, buttocks and feet. Typically those places that may be difficult for the Mistress to reach without straining. And why should she strain? The sissy maid’s sole purpose is to make Mistress’ life easier.
Once the bath is completed, the sissy maid may be called upon to apply moisturizer to the Mistress’ body. This is definitely one of the high points of being a sissy maid! Then, the sissy maid will likely dress the Mistress and perhaps even assist with drying and/or styling her hair.
While the Mistress applies her make-up for the day, the sissy maid is free to address the kitchen after breakfast, and change Mistress’ sheets and make her bed for the day. Once these tasks are completed, the sissy maid must ensure that the Mistress’ needs are met and that she has a way to contact the sissy maid, should she need her. Depending upon the size of the Mistress’ estate, the sissy maid may answer to anything from a crystal bell, to a wireless service bell, or perhaps even a walkie-talkie.
Once the Mistress is situated and her comfort is ensured, the sissy maid is then free to begin preparing the mid-day meal, and, begin arranging the evening meal as well. Since the mid-day meal is usually light, this gives the sissy maid additional time to complete other household chores. These will be assigned as needed by the Mistress, who will supervise the sissy maid’s efforts and grade her based on her dedication to and completion of the tasks at hand.
After the lunch table is beautifully set in a way that is pleasing to the Mistress, the sissy maid will stand by, but not be obtrusive, and will address Mistress’ each and every need as it arises-filling her glass, bussing her dishes between courses and so on. Once Mistress has finished her mid-day meal, it’s back to the kitchen to clean and begin early preparation for the evening meal.
The evening meal should be carefully and thoughtfully planned according to the Mistress’ tastes and dietary needs. Once the evening meal planning is complete and, beginning preparations are underway, the sissy can then address the remainder of Mistress’ chore list. For the very fortunate sissy maid, this list of chores may include giving Mistress a manicure or a pedicure. Of course, any task that puts the sissy maid in direct physical contact with the Mistress is quite a reward for her.
Again, the sissy maid should prepare the table for the evening meal in the most pleasing way for the Mistress. The table should be set as it was for earlier meals, however the evening’s place setting should involve creating a relaxing atmosphere for Mistress. This may be easily accomplished through soft lighting, such as candles and mood music according to the Mistress’ tastes.
As with all of the other meals of the day, the maid stands nearby to refill Mistress’ wineglass and/or make cocktails, as she requires. The sissy must also keep the dinner table tidy and free from soiled dishes and breadcrumbs. Finally, once dessert is served, she may wish to build a fire for Mistress. Mistress can relax by the fire with a cordial while the sissy maid kneels before her, massaging her feet. Once Mistress is settled in for the evening, the sissy can finish cleaning the kitchen for the evening and go about preparing Mistress’ bed for her evening slumber.
Each Mistress has different needs and desires, so she may wish to have her bed turned down, she may not. It may even be a duty of the sissy maid to lay out the Mistress’s nightclothes, or even, assist her in getting ready for bed. Once the Mistress is ready for bed, the obedient maid takes her worn clothes and puts them away.
The sissy maid who follows her Mistress’ orders to the letter and thereby completes round one of her maid training, may be entitled to hold what is known as a sissy maid party. Now, that is to say that the sissy will not encounter a break from her duties serving Mistress, but rather, her skills will be showcased as such at a dinner party or a special event. The purpose of the sissy maid party is to create an environment in which the trainee is able to shine and show off her finely-honed skills acquired during her training. This is a wonderful opportunity for her to prove to her Mistress that she can plan and execute a special event with panache, flair and grace.
The sissy may, under the direction of her Mistress, plan the menu, the theme, the location, etc., of the party. For her, it is a bit of a “coming out” party, or a debutante-type event. However, unlike those parties, where the person of honor relaxes and is served by staff, at the sissy maid party, she is the staff.