When we talk about femdom, domination and submission, often the theme of “coersion” comes into play. Frequently, submissive men (or men in general) have fantasies about doing things, or have a real desire to do things, that they think are “wrong”. Often, a man fantasizes about being a coerced sissy, or being coerced to crossdress (frequently called “Coerced Feminization. All this talk of coersion begs the question – can one be “coerced” to do something they secretly (or not-so-secretly) want to do?
Most of the activities that show up in “coerced” fantasies are of the emasculating variety. Coerced sissification (coerced sissy), coerced bisexuality (coerced bi), coerced cum eating (usually one’s own ejaculate) and coerced feminization (coerced fem) are four of the most frequently occurring “coerce fantasies” in femdom activities. Not many would argue that these activities reek of “real man” sexuality. Instead, they are the opposite of masculinity. And most menconsciously shy away from anything that will reveal desires that are anything less than “manly”.
Nonetheless, many, many men have fantasies in which they, or their behavior, is far from manly.
In order to alieviate themselves of the guilt and shame that goes along with being less than a man, the coerced sissy fantasizer may need to cloak the desire to be a sissy, or to be feminized, in the guise of “she made me do it!” Coercion, seduction and trickery executed by a woman or female figure, is the road to this relief from guilt. If a secret wanna-be sissy is coerced to be emasculated and feminized, then he does not have to take responsibility for his own desires.
Get it? Makes perfect sense, no?
Same goes for coerced sissy cocksucking fantasies and activities. Same for the sissy being coerced to eat his (or her) own ejaculate. Same for non-sissified feminization. All of these activities remove the desire from the fantasizer, and place it in the hands of the Mistress-feminizer, so wanna-be coerced sissy can be free to enjoy all of the pleasures that go along with his sissification fantasies – and none of the guilt and shame.